Wednesday, June 30, 2010

The Wait


I am not sure what it is with adoption professionals. Yesterday I sent a list of questions that I feel are pretty basic and easy questions to answer. Some of them effect many decisions that I need to make right now before our life becomes extremely hectic. Some decisions effect where we will stay during the transition. But for some reason my e-mails are not returned. I would be worried but this is just a common phenomenon in the adoption world. Adoptive parents race around begging everyone around them to rush this piece of paper or this form, we fed-ex things over night and don't flinch at the cost of it any more. Yet the other end just leaves you hanging. I am trying to remember that good news travels slower than bad news. There is a part of me, that like I felt last time, that I will not be confident in this process until he is safely home with us.

I started off today pretty productivity. I managed to arrange my maternity leave and the people at the district office and my principal were both wonderful and thrilled for us. I am planning as of now to go back to work for the first week of school and then I will take up to six weeks off to help our family adjust the new way of life. Tomorrow Mom and I are going to go shopping for some of the basics. My sister found me a whole host of wonderful adoption picture books and hopefully I will get those bought and shipped to us before we leave.

Tomorrow is another big list day and I hope that I can stay focused. Right now it is insanely hot. I really love the heat, but only when I do not need to be productive. For now it is like I am swimming through molasses.

4 comments:

  1. I am so excited for you all! Congrats - we look forward to meeting you newest addition!

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  2. Sending you extra strength to help you get through your to-do list! Congrats on getting your maternity leave set up! That has to be a huge relief too. I hope your shopping goes well.
    <3 and hugs!

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  3. Sending happy thoughts, Karon! This is so very exciting! Of course, you know I feel your pain about the paperwork, lack of answers, etc. Man oh man, do I ever feel your pain! :-) Cheering you on from Cinci!!!!!

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  4. WOW WOW WOW!!! Talk about another door opening, and fast! I am so excited for you. We are virtually twinning Rylie this Fall when we travel to Kaz, so I'll be following along anxious to hear any tidbits of advice you receive or have to offer about the adjustment to virtual twins. Many many congratulations. And wow. How incredibly thrilling!

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