It is hard to believe that one week ago today at this time, my kids were just realizing that it was their last day of "school" for them. I took the boys to William's Orchard on the way home, and dealt with one of Emerson's largest meltdowns to date. Isaac had his last night terror last Friday as well. We had a wonderful, healing and restful weekend. I worked hard on setting my three boys up for success for the next week, and we dove head first into life's next chapter.
I must say, life has a funny way of preparing you for the unknown future. John and I have years in the field of experiential education. We have worked extensively with kids who did not fit the mold, and all of that is paying off now.
John, and the boys have had an amazing week of learning. The boys have started off each morning with desk work of hand writing, art and fine motor skills. They do tons of math with John when making breakfast and lunch. John has had them test race cars at different angles to see which one will be the fastest. They went on a hike behind our house and found a turtle. Next they went to the library to ID the turtle and find story books about turtles. Yesterday, they played baseball and the boys had to use a measuring tape to see how far they hit it. Each time they had to count out loud the feet, and the record their personal best in their journal along with the weather, date and name.
I am learning that what we are doing with our boys has a name: "Unschooling." When I first heard this term I laughed. Kids can't learn just by being kids. Well, probably not everything. What we are learning to do right now for our kindergarten boys, is be intentional about teaching through the activities we do.
Best of all, we have had a meltdown free and night terror free night. Isaac is no longer eating food off the floor or hoarding food, and his regressions are more playful than hateful. Emerson is not constantly being defiant or ignoring us.
No, it is not perfect or easy, but it sure does feel right for now. I can't wait to see how they grown this year through this process.
Whew- I'm breathing a happy & satisfied sigh of relief for you & yours. It is so nice to have that sense of walking on the right path at the right time at the right speed. Kudos! May the blessings of wisdom, peace, rest, energy, fun & learning continue. Much love xo
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ReplyDeleteYou give me hope! Thank you, Karon - we start homeschooling Monday for reasons similar to yours (but differing in degree) and while I'm excited, I'm worried as well. Everyone tells me this is normal. Your decision to do what is best for your family is wonderful - even though I'm sure there will be rough days or weeks ahead. If I could I'd get out some pompoms and start cheering you on.
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